I Have No Uniform for my Sexuality
I’ve been thinking a lot about the way that I present myself to the world. I’ve never been conservative in my dress, but I’ve always made sure that it had nothing to do with just being blatantly sexual. Some of my clothes choices might be considered sexual by some people, but I’m not sure how they can justify their judgements. I wear clothes because I love the way that I look! My personality is on my sleeve, so to speak.
Anyway, this quote angered me. What is a “whore uniform”? A little ankle, as in the old days? A calf, a knee, a wrist, an elbow? Not having these body parts covered used to be considered scandalous, and it took us a long time to allow ourselves and others to dress the way they wanted. Unless we want to go back to being entirely covered, there is no justification in calling what someone wears a “whore uniform”, and there is certainly no reason to change how you treat them based on what they wear.
If I wear a tie, does that mean that I’m imitating a man? Should people come up to me and address me as “sir”? No, because that would be ridiculous. I think we are putting too much emphasis on what clothes are relegated to. Maybe we’re wearing shorts and skirts because it’s damn hot outside. I know I am. I also love twirling in my skirts. It’s fun to dance, to mix and match, to be bright and colorful. My mind isn’t on whether or not I’m wearing a “uniform” when I put on my clothes. There is no woman who has a uniform that forces her into a single mindset or a character trait.
PS: No one should be treated like a whore. That’s just wrong.